How To Make Her Take A Second Look

August 15, 2009 by admin  
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Admit it: part of dressing up everyday is to make the female population glance your way - not because you have something stuck in between the teeth or that your zipper is open, but because they are attracted to you. Now that is the hard part.

Before making attempts at building a relationship, you must find first your special someone and it all starts with having her to get a second look at you. Here are the three basic features majority of the women notices at a first glance that you might want to pay attention to.

Smile. Be careful not to look maniacal or weird, but your sparkling whites are key to engaging them to a conversation. If there is nothing to smile about, then look as if you are prepared to flash one when given an opportunity without looking like a dog eager to get food.

Eyes. Saying that your eyes are windows to the soul is already a overly used one - but they still remain true. Try to look alert and attentive, not dull and bored.

Last but surprisingly included, are the shoes. Measuring the size of shoe and relating it to another part of the anatomy aside, the appearance of your shoes determine how much time you pay attention to details and to your self. It’s not about the brand or the newness of your pair, but about how you can go places with your well-worn buddies. So better wipe those smudges out, unless of course you are in a soccer field.

After doing these efforts, not only will you get looked at twice, but three, four, and five more times and so on.

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Seduction: The Female Definition

August 10, 2009 by admin  
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Seduction, in a man’s brain may mean the “Rated R scenes” from one of the many sleazy movies out there. It may mean slow dancing; a lot of heavy breathing and other cinematically blood rising actions that titillate. Seduction, in a woman’s point of view, happens more in the mind.

For us, we do not get seduced by having someone strip naked in front of us nor do we get all burning inside if we get a lap dance. You might get us giggling or laughing our heads off with your silly antics but if you ask us if we are getting seduced by such moves, the answer will be a big no.

What gets our inner daring siren come out are the most subtle moves you can imagine. A stroke on the cheek sends shivers down our spine, your eyelashes tickling us while you give us butterfly kisses does more effect than doing a pole dance with whipped cream covering your good parts. And if you massage our back while we are tying away in our computer, that makes our skin crawl with pleasure.

The best seduction tip any woman can give a man is for a man to understand that we women like to take it slow and we melt with every subtle touch, with every subtle move. So, if you want your woman’s knees to weaken and go crazy, try this very simple tip and rest assured that you will be thanking yourself you followed a less traveled path to seduction.

Minding Your Manners Can Win Her Over

August 5, 2009 by admin  
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According to some, chivalry is dead. And it is, only because you killed it. Believe it or not, but many girls are still very much impressed with chivalrous actions and those that show kindness to other people. In fact, these two can attract swarms of girls faster than the biggest bling-blings in the world or the most expensive car. If nothing else, it makes the girls feel comfortable towards you, and you just may find yourself talking to more girls than you ever hoped for.

Here are some things to remember if you want to charm the ladies with good manners.

1. Always be ready to acknowledge the girl(s). If she is talking to you, look at her like she is saying the most important news in the world. If she has done something that necessitates any form of appreciation or praise, be the first to give it. If something untoward happens, be there to offer verbal support. A hug would be great, if you don’t overdo it.

2. Always greet her or them with a smile. Saying good morning is not at all difficult, but a simple hi or hello will suffice for most occasions.

3. Make an effort to know the girls’ names and be genuinely interested in them. Sometimes, they would be especially impressed if you can recall something they’ve said or a conversation you’ve had.

4. An impromptu gift can make you more appealing, and these do not need to be expensive at all. If she likes coffee in the morning, you could drop by with an extra cup of coffee for her. If she borrows a pen off your table and returns it, you can tell her to keep it for you.

These seemingly insignificant details can definitely help win her over. Once you have that pat down, you might find her more responsive to your advances later on.

How To Make A Good Impression And Get The Girl

July 8, 2009 by admin  
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If a girl wants to make a good impression on a boy, the smartest and surefire way to do it would be to make him a great meal. After all, the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, is it not? Boys like you, on the other hand, don’t have it so easy. There are no old adages you can count on for tried and tested tips in girl-snagging. Plus, with all the romantic comedy movies showing up on the big screen every now and then, it’s hard to come up with something original that will really have your girl smiling from ear to ear.

There is, however, one saving grace that you can count on, a saying that will be your inspiration in the dating game: “Laughter is the best medicine.” This doesn’t mean you have to mock your date’s problems or force her to take your rather careless advice. This just means that you have to hone your comedic skills in order to make a lasting impression among girls and, in time, get the girl you want. Make a girl smile and you’ve got yourself a chance. Make her giggle and you’ve earned a foot on her door. Make her laugh and she’ll give you her full, undivided attention.

According to statistics, 90% of single girls want a sense of humor in their dates. That’s a lot of girls and, chances are, the next one you’ll be dating will expect this trait from you, too.

How To Keep A Woman Interested

July 3, 2009 by admin  
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The dating arena is perhaps one of the most complex battlefields every teenager or adult has to conquer. According to statistics, women are more knowledgeable in dating compared with men. Women know what they want and how to get it. On the other hand, men have no clue when it comes to dating and courtship and, contrary to popular belief, men are rarely sure about what they want out of a date and a relationship. One thing’s for sure, though: a man wants to keep a woman constantly interested in him.

One of the best ways to get a woman attracted to you in the first place is by coming off as a confident male who has lots to offer. To do this, you must pay the woman a good deal of attention without committing anything and then, just when you feel her interest level rising, take that attention away and leave her wanting. This little mind game will keep the woman you desire on her guard – she will rack her brain for answers as to your withdrawal and, in an attempt to get the attention back, initiate the first moves to a date.

Once you go on a date, the important thing to remember is to hold her interest in you. This time, you must let go of all coy tactics; otherwise, she’ll feel confused and hurt and, thinking she turned you off, she will choose to move on to the next prospect. This time, give her back the attention in full regatta.

Little Known Ways To Be A Woman-Magnet

June 28, 2009 by admin  
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To be attractive to woman doesn’t mean that you have to be Hollywood looking or a perfect copy of a prince charming in fairytale books. Becoming a guy that is appreciated by most women as possessing the ideal qualities of a mate may seem to be a tedious task to most guys. Actually it is - that’s if you haven’t learned the following things yet.

Being presentable should be a natural characteristic to you. Pay attention to looking good, even in ragged clothes, and take care of your hygiene. This doesn’t mean that you would always have to appear like you are off to a grand ball, but neatness should be found even in the simplest clothes.

Always pay attention and listen. If you have lost these traits during your scolding teenage days, then it’s time to relearn it. Make her feel valued and wait for a chance to reciprocate. You wouldn’t want to be caught zoning off when she might be dropping off hints regarding a date.

Showcase your uniqueness and be yourself. Let her discover the positive things that she can find in you which are in other men. Being forgettable should not be a good description on yourself since you are out to make an impression.

Be sincere and honest in your actions. Trust is an important factor as with other relationship so you should never let doubt be associated with you and your relationship towards her.

It takes two to tango. Same is true for a relationship. Once finding your better half, make things work on both ends and rest assured that wedding bells might not be far off.

Ways To Let Her Know You’re Interested

June 13, 2009 by admin  
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You’ve seen her, you spoke to her, and you liked her. Now, what do you do about it?

Once you have encountered a female counterpart that you think would be a potential love match, there are two common reactions. First is to go for it. Boldly tell her that you find her interesting and check if the interest is reciprocated. The second reaction is fear of turning her away. Since you are not sure whether she returns the feeling, you hide it instead.

There is actually no need to do so. As they say, although the version needs to be altered a little, “it is better to have tried to tell her and lost than never to have tried at all.” Sounds cheesy but true. What if she was just waiting for you? Best not to regret later, so here are the simple ways to let her know you are interested.

First is to maintain eye contact. Time and again, this is an effective non-verbal way of engaging another person. If she returns that gaze, make sure not out of blatant irritation, then hold it moments longer.

Next is to put all your attention to her. Value her opinions especially if she is sharing something that pertains to interest. This will be effective and can be good for future use. Just don’t overdo it by asking her if she’s alright every time she sneezes or makes hand gestures.

Third is to engage in a conversation. Listening is not enough. You would also need to express your opinion especially when she asks for it. Asking relevant questions are much appreciated.

Last is to tell her. Either subtly or directly, express it especially when she has shown interest with your past few actions. After doing your part, the next step is for her to take whether to keep things as is or to make decisions for the start of a relationship.

Do You Recognize The Signs That She Likes You?

June 5, 2009 by admin  
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Smiling doesn’t come alone in this department. To make sure you get the meaning of your facial expression, a girl who likes you will crave physical contact with you. Thus, if a girl smiles at you and brushes against you or touches you, you could bet she’s interested. You should be sensitive to these kinds of things and when she touches you, you must touch her back at the same place or look up at her and hold her gaze. Otherwise, she’ll sum you up as a friend, not a potential lover.

One thing that a boy can do in order to tell whether their date is interested or not is to leave her on her own for a few minutes. Whether you’re having dinner or watching a movie, try to get up from your seat and leave indiscreetly. If she asks you where you’re going, it shows she cares and would rather go with you than be left behind. Moreover, if she stays put when you leave, it means she wants you to come back and will be right there when you do. Girls who have low interest levels will not take the time to ask. They’ll be content to have dinner or watch the movie alone. Furthermore, if you take too long, they’d be out the door, not on their seat waiting for you.

Now you know how to tell if a girl likes you. The only thing to worry about is how to get that date.

See How Easily You Can Make A Woman Attracted To You

May 14, 2009 by admin  
Filed under Attracting Women, Featured

Touch isn’t the only thing you need to do in order to keep your woman interested in you and happy in your company. If you really want to keep her smitten, be romantic.
Most men think women only like romance in movies but find it cheesy in real life. If you think this too, you couldn’t be more wrong. Women crave for bonding activities and they respond better when those activities are done in a romantic atmosphere because it makes them feel special. If your woman is athletic, invite her for a jog on the beach, but make sure to time it near sunset so you can enjoy the lovely view together. If she likes the opera, surprise her with tickets to a gala performance, preceded of course with candlelit dinner.

It may be the twenty-first century, but that doesn’t mean the old, charming ways of love should fade. Thoughtful gestures can go a long way and earn you a secured place in your lady love’s heart.

Finally, in order to keep your dating relationship healthy, you must have a way with words. In order to pull this off, you must be sincere with what you’re saying; a woman’s instincts can help her detect empty compliments and promises. Simply listen to her when she talks and make the comments she expects you to make. If she’s having a bad day, don’t force her to look on the bright side but offer a friendly advice or crack a joke or two so she can feel you’re there for her. Most importantly, never ever forget to tell her how beautiful she looks when you pick her up for a date; make it sweeter by whispering it in her ear when no one’s looking or at random moments.