Flirting Your Way To A Date
May 26, 2009 by admin
Filed under Dating Tips, Flirting
Flirting is actually the first part of dating. When you’re out in a big crowd and you notice that girl looking at you with shy eyes. She glances yet she pulls back and glances again and pretends to go back to chatting with her friends or drinking her cocktail. She may also be flipping her hair and showing some neck or skin to your direction – she is flirting at you. Now, what do you know about flirting?
This is the most fun part of dating. Women are not the sole flag bearers of this flirting game, men too, should be on it for the fun, and for the opportunity to get somebody to notice.
Here are some of the basic indicators of flirting:
• Eye Contact, Glances
- Eyes are staring or constantly directed at the point of interest
- Brows are arched
- Blinks, winks – any of its forms
- Prolonged gaze
• Hair flips, Mouth twitches
- Hair flips, strokes, or any hair-touching motion
- Gazing with hair strokes
- Smiling, mouth opening, teeth revealing
- Licking of lips, lip puckering
- Touching lips with tongue
• Body language, non verbal signals
- Posture adjusted with chest out with eye contact
- Body posture mirroring
- Dancing motions with eye contact
- Crossed legs towards point of desire
- Open legs towards point of desire
- Display of skin
• Accidental or non-accidental touching
- Any form of intentional touching, light or not
- Offering to feed in mouth
- Play of hands
• Voice inflections
- Voice tone mirroring
- Laughing and questioning tones in the voice
There are a lot of telltale signs just be receptive enough to identify them or capture them in a crowd so you can send back the signal accordingly.
Flirting Through Kissing
Below are the list of the most popular kisses and their meaning:
Kiss on the hand- This is commonly seen on someone kissing a person who has a higher position than him. Actually, this is simply a mean of adoration.
Kiss on the cheek – Don’t get too excited when your girl suddenly gives you a swift kiss on the cheek since this means ‘we’re friends’.
Kiss on the chin – When a girl do this, rejoice since it means she find you cute though you need to be careful since ‘cuteness’ may mean seeing someone as his brother.
Kiss on the neck –The thrilling kiss on the neck gives the signal that the girl like you.
Kiss on the lips – This means that the girl is in love with you.
Kiss on the ears – This is the signal you’ve been dying to have, it means ‘lets have fun!’ so brace yourself to a night long cuddling.
Kiss anywhere else – The girl would like to say that you’re the best.
So what kiss does your girl give you lately? Be aware of the signs and meaning since who knows if you are reading her wrongly? In return, you can use this guide to give her the idea of what you really want from her.
