Here’s A Quick Way To Score A Second Date

One of the most important ingredients in a successful date is a good pair of ears. This means that you have to listen to your date when she talks. When you appear to be interested in what she has to say, she will feel special and, in return, have an interest in you. Look into her eyes when she’s telling stories so she knows you’re with her all the way. Nod as if to understand where she’s coming from – her outlook in life, her beliefs, her influences.

Another thing that many men fail to do when they’re out on their first date is to compliment the woman they’re dating. It’s such an easy task, but men usually think giving compliments might come out forced and insincere. The key in complimenting a woman is to send out signs first that you’re noticing particular things about her before coming right out to acknowledge these things. For example, let her catch you glancing at her two to three times before you blurt out how much her beautiful hair mesmerizes you, or reach out and stroke her face more than once before you confess you’re in awe of her milky skin.

After gracing her with attention, you can tease her by withdrawing the attention and focusing on other things. This way, she’ll be confused and will regard you as a challenge. Remember, being a challenge is appealing to women and, without a doubt, your date will be up on her toes trying to get the attention back. This means a second date is underway.

How To Make A Woman Feel Special On A Date

The date is not going as smoothly as you hoped it go. It turns out that she’s allergic to the flowers you gave her; and that she hates chocolates; and then the dinner reservation you got was cancelled because the restaurant caught fire. To make matters worse, your car just broke down that morning so you have to ferry her across town in taxi cabs. This is probably one worse case scenario you do not want to be in. However, you can still turn things around. There are still ways and means for you to make your date feel especially special during this time.

1. Apologize once and then drop it. If a fiasco does happen some time during the date, apologize once and then move on to other topics. Instead of thinking how to apologize to her again, think of how you could get out of the mess. If your dinner reservation got cancelled, ask her if she wants to hang out your favorite restaurant instead; (she’s bound to say yes.) Nothing will remind her faster of your failings than you repeatedly apologizing over everything.

2. When you finally get to sit down together, learn to listen and block out everything else around you. A woman would feel especially wonderful knowing that she has your full attention, and that you are actively engaging in conversations with her.

3. Offer to make it a better date next time, and set the date right then and there. If a woman feels like you really want to spend more time with her, skip the line, “I’ll call you.” Before the date ends, make sure you have the next one tied up. I’ll bet a million dollars the next date will be a blast.

Flirting Your Way To A Date

Flirting is actually the first part of dating. When you’re out in a big crowd and you notice that girl looking at you with shy eyes. She glances yet she pulls back and glances again and pretends to go back to chatting with her friends or drinking her cocktail. She may also be flipping her hair and showing some neck or skin to your direction – she is flirting at you. Now, what do you know about flirting?

This is the most fun part of dating. Women are not the sole flag bearers of this flirting game, men too, should be on it for the fun, and for the opportunity to get somebody to notice.

Here are some of the basic indicators of flirting:

• Eye Contact, Glances

- Eyes are staring or constantly directed at the point of interest
- Brows are arched
- Blinks, winks – any of its forms
- Prolonged gaze

• Hair flips, Mouth twitches

- Hair flips, strokes, or any hair-touching motion
- Gazing with hair strokes
- Smiling, mouth opening, teeth revealing
- Licking of lips, lip puckering
- Touching lips with tongue

• Body language, non verbal signals

- Posture adjusted with chest out with eye contact
- Body posture mirroring
- Dancing motions with eye contact
- Crossed legs towards point of desire
- Open legs towards point of desire
- Display of skin

• Accidental or non-accidental touching

- Any form of intentional touching, light or not
- Offering to feed in mouth
- Play of hands

• Voice inflections

- Voice tone mirroring
- Laughing and questioning tones in the voice

There are a lot of telltale signs just be receptive enough to identify them or capture them in a crowd so you can send back the signal accordingly.

Asking Somebody Out For The First Time

If you have your eye set on a special someone you have to build the confidence and guts to ask her out. This is the standard things for men, but some women lately, are doing it too if they can’t wait for the man to do the first move.

Here are few tips on how to ask somebody out to a first date:

1. Ask yourself for the reason why you want to go out on a date. Do you really have the right reasons? Are you with the right attitude? What are your expectations in case she says no? What is she says yes?
2. If she rejects you, accept that. You may have a bad timing or she just isn’t into you so don’t fret about it too much and just move on.
3. Plan the approach. Bad timing will cause you a rejection. Choose the perfect moment to ask somebody out. Do not approach if you see that she is quite pre-occupied or busy. She might be stressed at the moment so try to delay the offer. If she looks ready, plan your opening statement well so you don’t get tongue-tied.
4. If the girl says yes, you must already be prepared with the venue, time, and the details so she knows you prepared for her that way.
5. Be ready to answer a seemingly intimidating question like “Why do you want to take me out on a date?” Flatter her and create the opportunity for her to trust you right then and there.
6. Ask her out directly but if she says she has to think about it first, let her think. Do not chase her like crazy. Never pressure somebody to go out with you.
7. Look positive and exude the fun spirit in you. Smile and let your fun side come out. A happy disposition will provide a nice atmosphere that can result to positive responses.
8. If she is not available on the time you specified, be ready with an alternative. This gives her an option and would make her want to say yes.
9. If she rejects the offer, don’t ask for the reason why. Just get on with your life and move away. Maybe she’s not yet ready at that moment.
10. If you asked somebody and she said yes, better be there to meet her on the agreed time and venue. Standing up a girl is unethical and a major no-no.
11. Do not play games with people’s feelings and time. Do not keep somebody hanging for no reason at all.
12. Do not drink alcoholic beverage to boost your confidence.
13. Time your approach as perfectly as you could. Do not approach somebody if she’s in a big group.