Three Things You Shouldn’t Be Saying When Inviting Her Out

Making her finally yes - take note: freely - for a date with you can be a lot of stress and worry. Rest assured that this is how it feels for most of the guys that some even find themselves talking to the mirror or practising with their dogs. To reduce the blunder on that crucial invitation, the following are some scenarios you should never attempt to include in your dialogue.

1. Tell her that it’s for her sake. Other guys can probably pull it off with humor, but when told in a flaunting and overly confident way can almost assure you that you won’t be receiving a yes anytime within the next few years. This is a good way of feeding your ego and having it reduced to ashes in a span of minutes.

2. Tell her that you have nothing better to do. Instead of saying that there is nothing else that you would rather do or no one else you’d rather be with, a slip of the tongue in your order of your words would be a great way for her to slam her doors on your face. Best not treat her as a past time or means of getting rid of boredom.

3. Tell her that she reminds you of your mother, ex-girlfriend or worse, an actress in the 50’s. Although this should be self-explanatory, it has always been a repeat offence among the ton. A woman should feel you’re interested in her, not of who she reminds you of.

Be sincere. That is the most effective way of asking your potential mate into establishing a relationship with you and not by concocting unflattering propositions.

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Touch isn’t the only thing you need to do in order to keep your woman interested in you and happy in your company. If you really want to keep her smitten, be romantic.
Most men think women only like romance in movies but find it cheesy in real life. If you think this too, you couldn’t be more wrong. Women crave for bonding activities and they respond better when those activities are done in a romantic atmosphere because it makes them feel special. If your woman is athletic, invite her for a jog on the beach, but make sure to time it near sunset so you can enjoy the lovely view together. If she likes the opera, surprise her with tickets to a gala performance, preceded of course with candlelit dinner.

It may be the twenty-first century, but that doesn’t mean the old, charming ways of love should fade. Thoughtful gestures can go a long way and earn you a secured place in your lady love’s heart.

Finally, in order to keep your dating relationship healthy, you must have a way with words. In order to pull this off, you must be sincere with what you’re saying; a woman’s instincts can help her detect empty compliments and promises. Simply listen to her when she talks and make the comments she expects you to make. If she’s having a bad day, don’t force her to look on the bright side but offer a friendly advice or crack a joke or two so she can feel you’re there for her. Most importantly, never ever forget to tell her how beautiful she looks when you pick her up for a date; make it sweeter by whispering it in her ear when no one’s looking or at random moments.